"The antidote to exhaustion is not necessarily rest…the antidote to exhaustion is wholeheartedness. You're so exhausted because you can't be wholehearted at what you're doing.” This was the surprising message the poet David Whyte received from his friend and mentor Brother David Stendel-Rast years ago, in response to David’s confession about [...]
"Why would a potential employer want to choose me over all the other job applicants?" "What do I have to offer that makes me unique?" Answering these question is one of the most common challenges I see in clients starting a job search, as well as those who have been slogging [...]
Identifying what brings you alive, what energizes you, is one of the most useful tools in your career exploration tool kit. Doing so helps you recognize what you find motivating--what Dark Horse author Todd Rose calls your "micro-motives". Each person has their own unique combination of micro-motives and it's that unique [...]
In a recent interview, Matthew McConaughey shared a powerful lesson that anyone involved in a job search can benefit from. He shared how after his first movie role (in Dazed and Confused), he could get auditions but no roles. At this point, he had less than a thousand dollars in his [...]
This is Hazel. She and her 7 siblings were brought to the shelter where I volunteer. She and the others needed to learn how to be around humans, so part of that involved having volunteers just hang out with her (she still wasn't used to being on a leash) and reading [...]
I first interviewed Daniel Santos a few years ago about his “Go Giver” approach to networking, because I thought it was such a thoughtful, generous way of approaching networking. (Note: Here's a more recent interview where he talks about his approach to networking.) I asked Daniel to do an interview because [...]
